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Is romance is in the air for you? Is your heart racing? Is your stomach is filled with butterflies because you can’t help but imagine a future with the person you know you are in love with? But what does this mean exactly? Is this the first time you’ve fallen in love? What are the little things to know that can make a world of difference in your relationship? If only you knew these things. Well, B is here to help you. Here are seven things to know when you first fall in love. One, you can change. You may think you will never become a diehard fan of “The Bachelor”, or any other reality TV show, or perhaps you’ve sworn off the taste of jello.
Is it a solid, a liquid? What is it? Well, these ideas of yours may
change when you fall in love, not specifically with
jello and reality TV, but your interests and
personality traits may change. According to a study, published in the Journal of Personality
and Social Psychology, people in love will find themselves with different personality
traits and interests after entering into their
respective relationships. One of the authors of the study suggests individual
self-esteem often increases along with gaining a more
diverse sense of self. Two, fear and judgment will decrease. Love has its many benefits. One common one is that your ability to make overly critical
assessments can shut down. One study suggests this further. The study was conducted by married couple, Richard Schwartz and Jacqueline Olds, professors at Harvard Medical
School and couples therapists. In a study, they looked into the science behind the common term, “Love is blind.” And in a piece published
by Harvard University, Schwartz explained that
feelings of love deactivate neural pathways responsible
for negative emotions. Which ones, you ask? Some are fear and social judgment. Three, love can make you sick. Are you love sick? Have you felt the pain of heartbreak? Well, beside the stress and sadness a broken heart can cause, love can also have the
chance to make you more prone to coming down sick.
Love can raise levels of cortisol. The stress hormone, cortisol,
can increase the odds of making you sick, as it has been shown to
suppress immune function. Four, misunderstandings
are bound to happen. When you first fall in love, you may think everything is
meant to be perfectly perfect in every single way, but misunderstandings are
bound to happen eventually. This isn’t the end of the world, though. You may have thought
your partner meant this, when they meant that. Maybe your partner thought
you behaved a certain way when you do the exact opposite. Don’t let simple confusion disrupt your feelings for each other, or the growth of your relationship. If it’s serious, discuss it. If it’s really no big deal, it’s no big deal, really. Five, they aren’t your missing piece. Many can seek out love
or be drawn to someone in hopes they will complete
them and make them one again. Yes, your lifelong partner can be one of the biggest
parts of your life, but it can be unhealthy
to look for a partner in hopes they’ll make you feel complete.
If you do feel empty, a partner may appear to make
you feel better for a while. But after due time, those empty feelings
will only arise again. Feeling complete and finding your purpose is a journey you must discover
within yourself first. Yes, you can do this by
your partner’s side too, but relationships tend
to be more successful when we already know who we are, and what it is we want out of life. Then, our perfect match may just follow. Six, their values can change. Couples often become a good
match based on similar values. It’s one of the fundamentals
of any healthy relationship, but partners can change. Perhaps, your love has
just received a new job and has to move to the
city for their future. But something you originally
both connected on was living the peaceful, simple life
in a quiet, serene town.
Those big city lights
just aren’t your thing. And since you can’t imagine
yourself living downtown, and their circumstances have now changed, it might be time to move on. You both have different
goals and desires now. Couples fall in love. And although they may not always fall out of love right away, they may not be a good match anymore. The important thing is you
still have the opportunity to fall in love with someone who now matches the person you’ve become. Seven, learn to love yourself first. One of the greatest things to jumpstart a healthy relationship, loving yourself first. In fact, your relationship with yourself is the most important
aspect of your existence. you should focus on. We tend to push aside
our conflicting feelings and suppress the unpleasant
emotions deep inside us. We can lash out at ourselves when we feel we’re not good enough. Doing so, we continue down the road of negative thoughts and self-hate.
One of the most crucial
things you can do in life is to expand from your narrowing beliefs and learn to love yourself. Treat yourself with
the compassion and care you’d like from others. Working on self-love can improve your self-esteem and grow your confidence. Respect yourself first. Then, your heart will be open to finding your true love and loving them and yourself freely.
So, have you learned something new about love? Where are you in your self-love journey? Have you recently found your first love? Or are you hoping you will in the near future? Share with us in the comments. Share this video with someone you love. It may help them learn something new to grow your relationship for the better. Subscribe to Bag Seazun and hit the notification bell icon for more content like this. As always, thanks for watching..
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